Elena and Mark
 
“When I discovered Mark’s history of sexual addiction and the infidelities tied to it, my world shattered. I felt torn between staying to rebuild our marriage or walking away to protect myself and my children. Unsure of what to do, we sought help from Dr. Fai at House of Hope. When I found out about Mark’s addiction and betrayal, I didn’t know who I was anymore. I was drowning in pain, anger, and confusion. Leaving felt like the safest choice, but part of me wanted to understand and know why, how, and what had happened and if our marriage could survive. Dr. Fai was a lifeline. She created a safe space where I could express every raw emotion without judgment and begin to process the betrayal at my own pace. Through our sessions, Dr. Fai helped me recognise that I didn’t need to make an immediate decision. She also reminded me that clarity would come with time and healing. Her guidance helped me understand the complexity of addiction while also affirming my right to set boundaries and prioritise my healing. To other couples walking through similar struggles, it’s okay not to have all the answers right away. Healing takes time, and it’s a choice you make every day. If you’re willing to do the hard work and trust the process, there is hope even after the deepest betrayal.” Elena
 
“I was overwhelmed with guilt and shame, and I didn’t know how to support Elena while also addressing my addiction. I acted like a defensive victim and didn’t know how to validate Elena properly. Dr. Fai helped me see that the first step was taking full responsibility for my actions. She guided me to seek treatment for my addiction and taught me how to be present with Elena’s pain, no matter how uncomfortable it was for me. I learned that rebuilding trust wasn’t about words but consistent, honest actions over time.
Sixteen months later, we are still together, committed to rebuilding our relationship one day at a time. Elena acknowledges every day that the pain hasn’t disappeared but says it no longer controls her life. Dr. Fai helped us to see that healing isn’t linear. Some days are harder than others, but we’ve grown stronger as individuals and as a couple. I can finally see my potential, and it gives me hope for our future. I’m grateful for the second chance Elena has given me, and I don’t take it lightly. This journey has taught me the importance of transparency, accountability, restoration, and patience. Dr. Fai showed us how to turn pain into growth and how to move forward together.” ”. Mark

Amanda and Jacob
 
“I couldn’t look at Jacob without feeling anger and sadness. The betrayal brought up so many insecurities I didn’t know I had. Dr. Fai helped me process my trauma by teaching me how to separate my worth from Jacob’s choices. Through tough and uncomfortable self-development sessions and exercises, I am slowly rebuilding my confidence and learning to communicate my needs without shutting down.” Amanda
 
“I knew I had caused unimaginable pain, but I didn’t know how to fix it. Dr. Fai guided me in understanding Amanda’s triggers and how to respond to them with consistency, patience, and empathy. She helped me examine the root causes of my behaviour and taught me how to become a safer partner by working on my emotional health. Today, our relationship is stronger than ever. We credit House of Hope for helping us rebuild intimacy and learn how to communicate openly and honestly.” Jacob

Melissa and David
We turned to Dr Fai, hoping to navigate the aftermath of some questionable behaviours in David. When I eventually discovered David’s multiple infidelities and financial dishonesty (thanks to our therapeutic disclosure), it shattered my reality and trust and made me question our entire marriage. I felt so hurt and angry, but Dr Fai encouraged me to express my feelings in a way that wasn’t destructive and also encouraged me to create boundaries whether I wanted to stay or leave the marriage, but no matter what decision I wanted to make, I had to do the required work (for myself). She taught me how to process the trauma while also holding David accountable. This gave me the courage to stay one day at a time and work on our relationship.” Melissa
 
“I didn’t understand how my actions were rooted in my childhood trauma and fear of failure. Dr. Fai helped me take responsibility for the damage I caused and gave me tools to repair the trust I had broken. I must admit, initially I found her very tough, but looking back, I know that was exactly what I needed; otherwise, I would have either manipulated her or tried to control and intimidate her just like I had done with other people and therapists before. I had gone to counselling before, but I never told them the whole truth, and they were not tough or clever enough to dig deeper. Dr. Fai was several steps ahead of me, and I knew it straight away. With Dr. Fai, I received structure, practical tools, and direction, and once I was ready not to make it about me and released the control, I received validation and lots of positive affirmation.
She also emphasised the importance of rebuilding relational intimacy through consistent, small actions over time. Over the last 2 years, Melissa and I have re-established trust and developed a deeper sense of intimacy. We have graduated Dr Fai’s program and only have occasional maintenance appointments when needed. Today, our marriage is a partnership built on safety, transparency, honesty, and mutual growth. I am changing, and for the first time, I like who I am becoming. Dr. Fai always joked and asked, “If I was ready for more kicks on my backside,” at the beginning of some sessions if I acted defensive or selfish and disregarded Melissa’s pain. I must admit I cringe recalling that man and how poorly he behaved back then, but I am grateful for all the therapeutic tough love I received from Dr. Fai.” David